Six months earlier, we had launched our new and shaky church, and that night, I was spent from the striving. I did not want to host another church event — did not see how to endure another night of expectations — did not know where to find another hour of connection in me I didn’t feel.
My inner introvert threw a tantrum all over my husband.
“Do you just want me to go and be fake?” I cried.
And then, in a hinge-moment that has swung every hour of my life since, Mike paused, took my face in his hands, and answered:
“I don’t want you to be fake. I want you to be mature.”
As Christians we have the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator (Colossians 3:10).
But the God who began a good work in us is still working (Philippians 1:6), and what’s happening inside doesn’t always show up on the outside. This verse brings hope and grace in its hands:
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience… Colossians 3:12
Put them on.
Wear these virtues as a garment – externally wrap yourself in them like a robe. Don’t worry about finding these things in your heart just yet, because Christian living is often a cloak on the outside instead of dredging something up from an inside that’s still being transformed.
You won’t always want to act in righteousness. You might never feel like you’re holy at all. When you don’t feel like the new self you are on the inside, cover yourself in God’s heart on the outside.
As God’s chosen ones, put them on.
As holy and beloved, put them on.
Go daily into the closet of prayer, stand before the grace you’ve received, and clothe your naked abilities in a wardrobe of His compassion and His gentleness and His humble heart. Wrap yourself in the ways you don’t always feel, to the glory of the One who chose you and called you His own.
Honesty keeps this from hypocrisy, because at the heart we are acknowledging who we’ve always been — unworthy, undressed, unholy, but clothed in the robe of the righteousness of His Son (Isaiah 61:10).
Real change comes to our hearts over time, if we listen and surrender — if we obey.
But maturity can be ours now, just by choosing to wrap ourselves in our true identity — in who we have become instead of who we are.
Debbie Le Grand
Kelly- that's beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you. I hope you are doing and feeling well!
Kelly P, I love you. This is perfect – inspired, really, for me this week, today, this very minute, really. For those “suck it up and just obey” moments that he is constantly using for my good. And His glory.
Love you, T. Have a great day.
Jenny Houston McMurray
Kelly, you're just awesome! We have to get together and catch up!
Yes! We definitely do.
Kelly, Thank you. This is beautiful!
Thanks for reading it, Lisa. I appreciate the encouragement!
Tricia Thurman Johnson
Well THAT was speaking some truth! Thanks for speaking it to me today. Ephesians 4:29 & 32 were given to me this week via my kid’s memory verse and, thankfully, I can not get it out of my mind (well, almost not…no
Thanks for sharing your heart…
Thanks for sharing your life with us!