Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. Colossians 3:9-10
You have put off who you were.
God is wrapping you in who He is.
So there’s no point in lying to one another.
Be honest about who you are — tell the truth about yourself, Paul writes here. The old you needs Jesus, and the new you is being reinvented to look like Him, quite apart from your own ability or actions.
When we know we need to be changed and that He is the only one who can do the changing, we have freedom to stop pretending to be someone we’re not. If we have trouble admitting sin and weakness to others, we are still trying to manage the old self — still trusting threadbare lies to cover own nakedness — instead of believing God has clothed us in the righteousness of His Son (Galatians 3:27, Ephesians 4:24, Romans 13:14).
In Christ, our sin should no longer lead us to secrets and despair, but to repentance and rejoicing and retelling the story that He has done what we could never do.
It’s the truth that sets us free, Jesus says, not our trying (John 8:32). Honesty is a stronger mark of salvation than holiness.
Holiness is the product of God’s transformation. Honesty is the place it begins.